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  • Last week, I stumbled across a post written by Preston Yancey. Entitled “to my future wife” it was, adorably, exactly that. A letter he’d written to his future wife. Somehow...

    hey, stripper!

    Last week, I stumbled across a post written by Preston Yancey. Entitled “to my future wife” it was, adorably, exactly that. A letter he’d written to his future wife. Somehow...

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  • In the city (and, I suspect, just about everywhere else) people between the ages of 18-40 who are unmarried talk about three subjects: their jobs, their relationships, and other people’s relationships.

    Talking the Talk

    In the city (and, I suspect, just about everywhere else) people between the ages of 18-40 who are unmarried talk about three subjects: their jobs, their relationships, and other people’s relationships.

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  • A homemade meal is cheaper, healthier and more satisfying than the fanciest fare, especially when you’re cooking for someone you care about.

    The Love Language of Food

    A homemade meal is cheaper, healthier and more satisfying than the fanciest fare, especially when you’re cooking for someone you care about.

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  • I’ve only recently come to terms with the fact that I was in an abusive relationship. For a long time, I felt like I should have known better, or that I should have been strong enough to walk away.

    Love Hurts?

    I’ve only recently come to terms with the fact that I was in an abusive relationship. For a long time, I felt like I should have known better, or that I should have been strong enough to walk away.

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  • This has become my new mantra. It’s simple, in concept. But as I allow myself to develop deeper relationships, I’m learning how difficult this principle has become.

    Don’t Be Shady

    This has become my new mantra. It’s simple, in concept. But as I allow myself to develop deeper relationships, I’m learning how difficult this principle has become.

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  • Whenever our schedules will allow it, Chanel and I make a point of having lunch together on Fridays. Our Festive Friday get-togethers basically serve as an excuse for us to...

    Want to Write for IKDH? This Is Your Chance.

    Whenever our schedules will allow it, Chanel and I make a point of having lunch together on Fridays. Our Festive Friday get-togethers basically serve as an excuse for us to...

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  • Hello. I am a man. The IKDH discussion on pseudo-dating got me to thinking about the Grand Canyon-sized chasm of differences between how women and men think in regards to...

    I Kissed Dating Maybe (depending on how I feel that hour)

    Hello. I am a man. The IKDH discussion on pseudo-dating got me to thinking about the Grand Canyon-sized chasm of differences between how women and men think in regards to...

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