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"When the Bible speaks of love, it measures it primarily not by how much you want to receive but by how much you are willing to give of yourself to someone."
-Tim Keller, The Meaning of Marriage
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Don’t Be Shady
Posted on April 15, 2011 | 1 CommentThis has become my new mantra. It’s simple, in concept. But as I allow myself to develop deeper relationships, I’m learning how difficult this principle has become. -
Do You Do Church Together?
Posted on April 13, 2011 | 4 CommentsThe ladies discuss the value of attending church services hand in hand, as well as explore the…er, distractions that can come along with it. -
Her.meneutics: Christian Dating Do Over
Posted on February 22, 2011 | No CommentsLast week, Christianity Today’s Her.meneutics blog ran a feature on I Kissed Dating Hello. This was HUGE for us. It was our first bit of press following the website redesign... -
The Curse of Eve
Posted on February 21, 2011 | 2 CommentsBoth Christian and secular culture frequently affirm the notion that it’s more difficult for men than for women to maintain appropriate physical boundaries. Yet the curse of Eve found in... -
A Consideration of Loneliness
Posted on February 16, 2011 | 2 CommentsThe LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. -Genesis 2:18 When you consider God’s response to... -
The Dreaded DTR
Posted on February 15, 2011 | 2 CommentsThe ladies discuss what it means to "define the relationship" and the necessity of having the dreaded DTR. -
Should Men Do the Pursuing?
Posted on January 20, 2011 | 22 CommentsAre men responsible for pursuing women or can this responsibility of be shared? -
zero to naked
Posted on January 1, 2011 | 2 CommentsParents - If the title wasn't incentive enough, go ahead and skip this one. Everyone else - Let's not pretend like you don't know of which I speak. -
Mailbag Monday
Posted on November 8, 2010 | No CommentsDear IKDH, Can Mr. Perceptive (or any of the IKDH ladies with their own insight) elaborate on women acting “maturely and not like they’re still in youth group when some... -
Is Your iPhone Keeping You Single?
Posted on November 4, 2009 | No CommentsI love this piece from Monday’s New York Times by op-ed columnist David Brooks called “Cellphones, Texts and Lovers.” It so perfectly sums up the dating conundrum in our 21st century, technology-infused...